Lesbian Exclusive Exchange

If you have to plan sex, it isn’t as hot or as fun. Bullshit!

Looking forward to it heightens your desire for it & gives you time to get ready. Try scheduling a sex date & prepare the scene with music, candles, flower petals, whatever she gets off on. Hell, throw on some lingerie too:) Don’t do it half ass because then you might not get any ass. 

 2. Mind Reader

She knows what I want; besides I shouldn’t have to tell her. HA!

Communication about what you each like & dislike is essential. If you are embarrassed talking about it, get over it already. If your girl’s repertoire consists of things that do nothing for you, you have no one to blame but yourself honey. Talk talk, talk talk, you have to talk, talk!  

 3. Masturbation No-No

I shouldn’t need or want to finger myself if I am having sex with my girl.

Nothing could be further from the truth. Any sex increases sexual desire whether that’s with your girl or with yourself. Masturbation helps you get in touch with your body to figure out just what it is that you enjoy. Tell your girl all about it;) 

 4. IOU an O

An O is not the sole indication that your girl enjoyed having sex. Duh!

Sex ends with an “x” not with an “O.” If your girl doesn’t feel the need or desire to have an O, don’t try to give her one. O and how do you know she’s enjoying it? I don’t know, how about ... um... talking? 

 5. Two in the Mood

If we aren’t both in the mood for sex than we shouldn’t have it.

You & your girl likely have different levels of sexual spunk. One of you probably wants it more. This is normal. If you’re not in the mood, try getting into it. At least take a few moments to satisfy her or just hold & caress her while she masturbates. It’s hot, plus there is nothing worse for a girl’s self esteem than constantly having her advances rejected.