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Sure, your sex life might be pretty good but why not make it great! Read these fast and easy tips to get your sex life in gear and get your girl going.
No.1 - New Heights
To increase her chances of orgasm when your inside her, use the right positions to hit her G while you simultaneously stimulate her clitoris with your other hand or a toy. The more O's, the better and this is an amazing one. Trust us;)
No.2 - Oral FIXation
Many women rank oral sex as their favorite sexual act. So, get better at it! Remember to keep your rhythm steady & check in with her about how much pressure to use & if she likes direct stim. Some of us are too sensitive to enjoy that. Try varying your technique by using the flat part of the middle of your tongue for a constant, softer & more encompassing way to stimulate her entire clit. Please don't utilize the same technique that you kiss her with to give oral to her other set of lips. Duh.
No.3 - Sexpert
In addition to her clit and G-spot, become familiar with all her other secret spots. The outer third of her vagina is filled with very sensitive & erotic points for stimulation. Be adventurous & have fun when trying to find them with your fingers. These spots are all about the size of a dime and exactly where they lie varies a tad bit for every woman. Your girl's erogenous zones are as unique as her, so explore her personal anatomy & become an expert about what turns her on.
No.4 - Compliments Complement
For some women, the thought of anyone looking at their pussy may be loaded with anxiety & fear. Even if you've been together for a long time, we women are always concerned with how we look, smell & taste. If you want to release her wild side, fill her with confidence about her body. Tell her often how beautiful she is and how wonderful she smells & tastes. This is especially important if she claims she doesn’t like getting oral. She may have had a previous lover who was insensitive, or too many crappy messages from childhood that prevent her from celebrating sex & her sexuality. Encourage her to see herself the way you do, as a gorgeous sex goddess, and she may just surprise you with mind blowing sex.
No.5 - Missing the Kissing
Kissing might just be the fastest and easiest way to turn her on and get her juices flowing. Our big tip: Don’t forget to kiss her when it’s most important to her- during sex. While certain positions can make kissing tricky, try to kiss her everywhere, especially on the mouth, during your sexual encounter.
No.6 - Breast Bully
We know they are your favorite toys and you may have even named them; but beware, all of her sensitive and erogenous spots become heightened and sometimes even painful when Aunt Flo visits. We know that when her breasts are fuller than usual they can be very inviting, but she may not even want them touched. Check in with her & fondle gently.Iit will make her feel loved as well as aroused.
No.7 - Toy Joy
Many women have difficulty climaxing without the use of a toy or have stronger orgasms with them. Toys today are for everyone. If she's apprehensive, let her control the speed & pressure. She can sit on top of you, be facing toward you or away, to vary the spots in the vagina that are stimulated. You get to watch her bouncing on you while she does most of the work. Enjoy the show and tell her how sexy she is on top! Sexual stimulants like gels add a little fun and variety you can’t get naturally. Another tip: make sure that you have good quality lubes and toy cleaners to keep you safe and healthy.
No.9 - Porn Queen
New studies show that almost 30% of online porn viewers are female. Some women may prefer to use adult film as research. There are some great instructional DVDs out there that teach techniques including oral play, erotic massage and female ejaculation. They can provide an interesting approach to seduction on date night. Watch them together with the sound off, so you can get information and a turn-on at the same time. Research has never been so much fun;)
No.10 - Mutual Masturbation
An ideal alternative to the mundane is to have a night where you and you lover take turns pleasing yourselves. Sometimes, you just want it the way you want it! Light the candles & get out the lube. Apply some to each other then prop yourselves up on pillows so that you won’t miss a moment of the show! Lie close & kiss each other often, especially the neck and breasts so that you have body-to-body contact. We all have areas that are more sensitive than others, so watch where she touches herself and learn. You might even want to place your hand softly over hers as she touches herself to learn the right pressure. Offer to lend a hand or finger if she requests it. Internal stimulation at the same time may help her over the edge. Hot pillow talk to encourage each other is not a bad idea either.
Go get it girl!
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