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Written by lesbian lush on Monday, 10 January 2011 16:11
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Sexting Do's and Dont's
Send words, not pictures
As you well know, a woman’s sexuality is largely between her ears not her legs. Telling her what you’re going to do to her when you get together will likely be much more stimulating than a picture of your naughty bits. Share your ideas about what the two of you could do in private and you’ll have her blushing every time she checks her phone. Encourage her to use her imagination and make her wait to see your naked lady parts. ;) If you've been together awhile AND you trust her AND she asks, consider sending a modest pic of her favorite plaything...just be careful!
Sexting should be foreplay not substitute for real play.
Use sexting as a tool to get in the bed, not as a substitute for the real deal or for your inability to come up with something else to text. In this era of social networking, texting, instant messaging, ad infinitum -actual face to face communication skills are falling to the way side and are in danger of being lost forever. Sexting should never take the place of sex, simply provide a means of foreplay when you are not in each others company , or perhaps you are but are not able to act on your sexual desires.
Don’t send anything you wouldn’t say to her face.
The ability to text has made us all a little bolder when it comes to our communications, but if you wouldn’t say something out loud to someone, you probably shouldn’t text it either. The ability to text and solely communicate online tends to boost esteem a bit and can sometimes tempt us to let loose a bit too much. S reemebo use a little discretion. A text message or an e-mail leaves a technological footprint that could come back to haunt you. Sometimes, even things you would say in the heat of the moment in bed should never be put in writing. When in doubt, do not sext it.
No unsolicited sexting.
Just because a woman gave you her number does not mean you have an open invitation to start sexting. Start off by flirting casually to see if she responds, then let it build up gradually from there. An important rule that should not be bent or broken is that you should never sext anyone you haven’t sexed in real life first. I would bet money that most women won’t mind getting a steamy text from you if you’ve already made her O in the bedroom.
Infrequency creates Intrigue.
Once you’ve starting the sexting, don’t abuse or overuse it. It should never be a substitute or be expected by the recipient. Keep it fun and spontaneous. She'll want you to sext her again, instead of wishing you would stop. Don’t abuse your sexting power.
Never share sexts.
If you participate in sexting, be an adult and do not share your intimate texts with others. This is a childish error and is very disrespectful. The only time sharing a sext is acceptable is if it was uninvited and you feel the need to report it to an authority for safety or in an effort to stop the unwanted sexts.
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Last Updated ( Thursday, 09 June 2011 12:09 )
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