Lesbian Exclusive Exchange

Try and stay away from no brainers like flowers or chocolate unless they are specifically suited to her. Maybe it’s an orchid, which she adores or 5 lbs of green m&m’s because they’re her favorite. Be creative and remember it doesn’t have to be expensive to show her you care. Oh, and it doesn’t have to be a special occasion to gift your girl either.

Avoid anything practical. If you’re gonna get her some panties that she actually needs, buy the pretty sexy ones that make her feel good & makes you think she looks good. No granny panties please.

Get her stuff she wants, you know the shit she enjoys and perhaps would never buy for herself. Spend more on an item than she would think of spending on herself. She can’t do without coffee but buys budget brands? Buy her a $10 bag of the gourmet grind. If she has just about everything, kick it up a notch. She already has a $50 watch? Well, buy her a $100 watch or a watch that makes a fashion statement;) Have fun with it girls.

Get her a gift of doing something together. Like tickets to a movie, museum, concert or play, or how about a sex toy? Whatever she’s into.

Make the gift appropriate to the relationship. If it’s your third date, don’t buy something over the top extravagant. It’s not impressive, it’s a tad scary.

Take note of her hobbies. If she’s an avid reader, get her a book she would enjoy. If she’s a promising writer, get her a journal to compose in. If she’s an outdoor enthusiast, get her a boatload of sunscreen. We think you get the idea here;)

Give the gift of your time and talent. Make her a nice dinner that includes her favorite cuisine or serve her breakfast in bed. Run that dreadful errand for her. Put together that unnecessarily convoluted 127 piece TV stand she bought from IKEA.

Pay attention 24-7. She’ll tell you what she wants inadvertently when you’re just out doing regular everyday things. Oh, I like this or that, such & such is my favorite. Later when you surprise her with it, you will not only get props for getting something she loves but also for remembering- awe how sweet you are!