Lesbian Exclusive Exchange

1. Gal with a Plan

Of course it’s important that you be able to have fun together, but it’s just as important that she knows who she is and where she is going. No matter how charming, if she is still struggling to find herself, it will get very old, very fast.

#2. You’re #1

Picture a brand new box of gourmet chocolates. Does she first offer it to you to pick the best piece? This is a metaphor for how she will treat you for the rest of your life.

3. Germs, what Germs?

You know a girl is really into you when she can't stay away, even when you're bedridden and green with snot. When you're sick with the flu she insists on coming over & taking care of you rather than keeping her distance.

4. We are Family

She not only asks about your family, she genuinely wants to hear about them. Interest in your family shows that she is thinking about you for the long term. She knows that being with you means understanding and accepting your relatives too.

5. Friend Friendly

In the beginning of your relationship, does your girl show an interest in meeting your crew? Does she follow it up with a plan, like hosting a low-key dinner party? This shows she knows friends are an important part of your life. Also, her knowing them makes her more involved with you, so initiating it herself shows commitment.

6. Go Team U

When your girl calls your mom to tell her about your promotion before you do, that should tell you something. A woman who is supportive of you & your goals doesn't feel threatened by your success and therefore toots your horn to anyone that will listen.

7. Sweat the little things

Does your woman really listen to you? You know she does if you tell her you have a big scary work meeting and the next time you talk she asks how it went. Or if you tell her you left your fav lip gloss at her house and she remembers it on your next date. Following up on even the little things you say to her means she truly cares about you.

8. Happy = Happy

This is the girl who goes to a chick flick with you on Friday night when she prefers an action film --  and not because she actually wants to, but because it makes you happy. Vis a vis, she’s happy when you’re happy.

9. Bring out the Best

This is a woman who makes you feel like the sexiest and smartest woman alive. She insists you can do anything that you put your mind to. Remember, it's not just about how you feel about her but also about how she makes you feel about yourself.